Let's get this matter straight. Yes the wording of the rejection is offensive, and bewildering (unless the contributor had set out with malicious intent) I would not think that the problem on this site would be such that it might be on more emotionally charged sites dealing in political issues.
None of the content here is paid for by the site, it is all provided free by the contributors who give there time and expertise willingly. All they expect is that it is appreciated, and posted to be read so that their time is not wasted (so please, no snide remarks about 'some people's' expectations)
If a post is to be rejected for editing, then please point out where the 'problem' word, or phrase is. What is a person to do when it is not obvious to him/her? Must they keep submitting changing every word until they hit the right one?
I changed mine (one in question) three or four times, it contained no URL's and all my words were relevant and would pass in a letter to the Mother Superior of any Nunnery. Each time it was rejected
I contribute to many sites for which there is no charge, and there are many that provide considerable information, and do not require you to contribute any, and they are free.
Surely it is more important to please the contributors to the site who all have one thing in common - to research their ancestry in the IOM, than to seek glory in some dubious Google rating.
Many sites which invite postings from users of the site have words which are banned. But these are always of a nature that can easily be identified as not acceptable. However, the range you give is unbelievable, and I wonder that any posts are accepted.
(I am expecting this one to be rejected)
Suggested remedy: Revise the list of 'naughty words' (and change the name 'naughty' to a more mature, less offensive epithet
Point out at the time of the rejection where the problem word is. If the system found something objectionable, then it knows where it is.
And remember, our contributions that make the site of interest are also free. And we are reasonably intelligent mature people and like to be treated as such, asking so little in return.
Feedback is important. As a business psychologist, I know that fewer people will complain, even though aggrieved, than will inform, so without feedback, especially constructive criticism, problems can continue long past what should be their 'sell by' date.
Long may this informative site both grow, and improve. Hopefully it will continue to attract many to visit the island and experience its beauty, and warmth of its people.