Hi Gillian , what more do you know , I could not find any marriage in England for either event. Did he die on the Isle Of Man in 1945 aged 89 or 1947 aged 87 ? As far as births go , only Thomas William Collister (as Callister) I could find was 1889 , so he would be too young to be getting married in 1904.
Cheers
David Dwyer