thanks ralph i will look at those and thank you for all your info
do let me know if you ever find any connections, and i will do likewise.
i was in the isle of man last year and it was beautiful, i had forgotten just how beautiful as i used to go with my parents and sister and as i now live in canada it has been in the back of my mind all the time for 40 years , now having been i want to come over every year as it was so peaceful and pretty and not all built up like here and england