Josie, you wrote that "reading the 1889 will of John Wade, butcher from Ramsey, both these sons are named as beneficiaries". i.e. John and Edwin.
You need to tell us what other details are given in the will, especially other children and their married names if given, wife, other relatives, property named, etc. It is not possible to sort out this kind of problem, especially between IOM and England, if you give only a fraction of the information you have - and then say you already have it when someone has looked it up for you.
Thanks,
Sue