Josie,
I asked someone to look at Ramsey burials for you, from 1860 to 1870, for Edwin and John Wade, but they were not found.
They were with their parents and siblings in the 1851 census, but not found in any later censuses.
Did you find them in the 1861 census that you were looking for them 1860 to 1870? Why those dates?

Sue