Linda: you and I are 4th cousins.

I found the marriage for Ellen CALLOW and John FAIRCLOUGH in the Sep 1858 index on Findmypast.com. I found her on all census's 1861 and on. They had 11 children appearing at one time or another. There is a burial index entry for John FAIRCLOUGH age 70 in Sep 1899 Bolton district. She is a widow in 1901 at Bolton. I couldn't find her death.

Which child is your grandparent?