Hello Lynne,
I found some of your earlier messages, and it looks as though Eric was probably right with the family he gave you.

I think you need to start at the beginning, and transcribe exactly what was in Jane's marriage certs, death cert., censuses, parish registers, and other official records which mention her, with all the dates, places and ages, and post those on the board? Leave out everything which was guesswork, or comes from other people's trees, and which is only causing confusion.

It will look much clearer when only facts are written down, and it will be easier for people to make suggestions.

Sue