Hi Kay & DJ
thanks for your replies
this has certainly added to confussion

do you know if George was still living with them in 1901,

1881 def show 2 step son 1. Robert Gorry b 1869 (so I presume she had him before she married) 2 George Quayle born 1874
so I think she was married 1873-4 but cannot find to who or why it would state Quayle for his name

l keep looking and see if I can find please let me know if you find anything else
regaqrds Chris