Sue,
i have it all sorted now, i know where there hiding from me, sometimes its better when i know who their neighbour is, as with all church yards , if i go to one and want a cowin , there wont be any to find but in a yard where i dont want the name hey presto ups comes that certain name loads of times, and lonan and maughold have loads of names like corlett, radcliffe, kneale, mckneale, and cains,looneys, anyway i now know and im going armed with me info