I'm getting a little lost in this long story. To try and recap using the 1851 census for Ramsey Distric 1, schedule 81, St. Pauls Square:

John Wade, head, married, 50, butcher (appears all censuses to 1881, bd 1889)
Elizabeth, wife, married, 46 ( bd. 1871)
Edwin, son, unmarried, 22, butcher (no other census)
John, son, unmarried, 20. butcher (no other census)
Frances, daughter, 18 (appears in each census to 1881)
Jane, daughter, 17 (no other census)
Daniel, 15, (grocer aged 24 in 1861, no other census)
Evan, son, 13 (not in 1861, butcher aged 32 in 1871)
Elizabeth, daughter, 8 (in 1861 and 1871)
Amelia, daughter, 4 (in all census to 1881 ?died 1922)
James H, son , 1, (all census to 1881, chemist, bd 1881)

Two children of James Henry registered.
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