I'm sorry I don't know where your relative is buried, but I was in Scotland at the weekend and saw a memorial stone for George Allan, 1st Officer of the S.S. Abydos. I took a picture because my partner is from the IOM and thought it would be interesting so see what happened to the ship when I stumbled on your post. It's telling me the file is too large so I am unable to upload it here. If you have any suggestions how I can add it I'm more than happy to as it lists quite a few family members??