couple of points - all capitals is generally treated as equivalent to shouting
2nd it is not usually wise to attach a new query to an existing unrelated thread - better to start a new thread
3rd try to give some dates etc - Kelly is extremely common though joseph kellys are less common
Have you traced them in the censuses ? - eg in 1841 there is a Joseph kelly and Cath Collister on the high road near Lonan church - he is an ag lab - only 1 child John that I can find