I have not been on the website in a while. I lost my mother in September 23, 2008, I am so sorry to hear of Brian's passing. My heart goes out to his family and to all he has help including myself. He will be greatly missed.
And I know he would not want anyone to weep but to rejoyce in his life and all he has done for all of us.

Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there... I do not sleep.
I am the thousand winds that blow...
I am the diamond glints on snow...
I am the sunlight on ripened grain...
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you waken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of gentle birds in circling flight...
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry—
I am not there... I did not die...