Sandra
i just dont get it as he had lily cain 1890 isle of man [ in which paul ] got in touch and said my grandad and his grandma were brother and sister, my mum was named lillian aster lily cain but her name was lydia ; but they called her lily ] if you can follow that , but there should be a 1891 census with them on then but i cant find it , until 1901 which i know all about where they lived, what am i missing[ apart from a brain ]