Yes you are correct Frances it is difficult to comment on such a thing without a clear and concise overview. I have suggested to Jean if she so wishes that I send her my findings by email. There would be no in depth mention of this possible other family member on here as I only discovered they were on the Isle of Man a few months ago. I have not posted this 'dilemma' on the Manx board purely because it is very long, I have set out where (addresses) and when (censuses/baptisms) these 2 people were their parents and grand parents in an effort to see if they were related. Another reason for not posting is because the majority of posters are requiring information about ancestors from the Isle of Man, these 2 are from Warwickshire. One of them was finally buried there, the other returned to England.

Ewan