Thank you very much for your reponse which has been so fast and helpful. I am pretty new at this, so I will ask a couple of questions and please forgive me if I sound dense!
It was suggested that I do a monumental inscription lookup - what exactly is this. I understand what you are suggesting but dont know how to go about it. Secondly, does anyone know why I cannot find the information that was given to me about deaths of Edward Bernard and Mary Rosene on www.ancestry.co.uk and Census 1901. Both of these sites are SUPPOSED to cover IOM, but neither is coming up with anything?
Also, is there a similar site that I can join which gives information solely for IOM?
Thanks a lot.