Okay Brian, here is what I have (for you and/or any other interested party)

Gladys Starkey b. 30th July 1901 F. John James Starkey (Joiner) M. Elizabeth Mary Starkey (nee Quayle) 19 Church St Ramsey

Laura Heaney (but known as Starkey) b. 14th July 1916 M. Jessie Heaney (Hawker) F. Not given 38 College St Ramsey

Winifred Jessie Heaney (also known as Starkey) b. 31st December 1907 M. Jessie Heaney (Hawker) F. Not given
6 Queens Drive Ramsey

Lillie May Starkey b. 11th May 1892 F. Thomas Henry Starkey (Labourer) M. Annie Starkey (nee Burns) 2 Queens St Ramsey

James Heaney b. 14th August 1902 M. Jessie Heaney (Domestic Servant) F. Not given 11 Church St Ramsey

You do have a Lily May Starkey in your burials, died 19th Sept 1892 aged 4 months, and I think this might well be the above Lillie, but I'm awaiting further confirmation re this.

The Lily (Starkey) I am looking for however, definitely did not die until 1975 (and I met her!), as she is the one who married Geoffrey Lace and lived at the Lhen from at least 1946. I can find no trace though of either her or Geoffrey except for the info Len Faragher kindly posted here - I think a request for a marriage cert is needed! I desperately need to know who my Lily's parents were, and so find out what relation she is to the other Starkeys above.