Thanks yet again for your reply..i did see they are living together 1881..then later on she is a widow...but the photo i have of the grave says ?? cant read..but his name is above janes and she died 1863... dont know if you can post eamil addresses on here? i could send you a copy then..it is hard to read..someone took it very kindly for me a couple of years ago..because Catherine Cook their daughter is on the bottom i assumed it is the right family!!
As i said i will have to send for that death cert..but will it have her maiden name on?