another possible line of enquiry is to see what if any connection between the Cubbon and Kewley families exists (there was only 1 Kewley family in Arbory in 1841) - he had to meet and court her - she was some years older than he so it might well have been an introduction by some family matchmaker - Arbory and Patrick share a short border but the Friary is a fair distance south - where was her family based ?