Donna thank you for the information, you have Richard married to mary v.(My Gmother)as being the second son. this mistyfies me, in 1881 census the folling:-
Richard Head M 31yrs
Ann Gelling wife M 32yrs
Isabella A Gelling D 4yrs
Richard son 2yrs(which makes 39 at death not quite correct0
John j Mylchreet Step son 12yrs
Humphrey Mylchreest 8yrs.
does this mean that Richard and Ann had anothe son which died.

1901 they are at Ballacostain farm S.
haven't been able to locate where RICHARD AND MARY VIOLET KEWLEY WERE MARRIED OR WERE MY FATHER RICHARD(DOB 20.5.1914) WAS BORN, CAN YOU DIRECT ME TO WHERE I MIGHT FIND THIS INFORMATION.

MANY THANKS BARBARA