Hi Pam
I’ve done a bit of digging and may have come up with the right family, but it all needs checking thoroughly.
I believe that your Manx ancestor who emigrated to Ontario was Thomas Costain b 1845, son of John Costain, cartwright, and Ann Duke. This Thomas added the middle name Darcy in later life (according to an IGI transcription of his death registration)
I suspect that Thomas’s mother died in Douglas IOM in 1853 (buried in Arbory) and that widower John Costain emigrated to Canada with his children shortly afterwards.
I’ve copied some entries from the IGI to support this theory.
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1851
Douglas St, Castletown
Ancestry’s transcription:
Name Age
Ann Duke 54
Thomas Duke 24
Ellenor Duke 20
Edward Duke 16
Eliza Duke 11
John Castain 32
Ann Castain 28
Thomas Castain 5
William Castain 3
John Castain 1
notes:
JC 32 son in law, cartwright
TC 5 grson
all b Arbory
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IGI:
marriage of the parents of Thomas Costain:
Name: John Costean
Event Type: Marriage
Event Date: 03 Apr 1845
Event Place: Arbory, Isle of Man
Gender: Male
Marital Status: Single
Spouse's Name: Anne Duke
Spouse's Gender: Female
Spouse's Marital Status: Single
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IGI:
possible baptism of this Thomas Costain (who was the father of John Frederick Costain b 1872)
Name: Thomas Costean
Event Type: Christening
Event Date: 04 Nov 1845
Event Place: Arbory, Isle of Man
Gender: Male
Father's Name: John Costean
Mother's Name: Anne Duke
cartwright, abode Rushen
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IGI baptism of a brother of Thomas:
Name: Richard Edward Costean
Event Type: Christening
Event Date: 17 Mar 1854
Event Place: Arbory, Isle of Man
Gender: Male
Father's Name: John Costean
Mother's Name: Anne Duke
cartwright, abode Douglas
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IGI:
Thomas Costain’s brother’s 1901 Canadian census entry:
Name: Richard E Costin
Event Type: Census
Event Date: 31 Mar 1901
Event Place: B, Brant (south/sud), Ontario, Canada
Gender: Male
Marital Status: Married
Ethnicity: Manzman
Nationality: Canadian
Religion: Baptist
Relationship to Head of Household: Head
Birthplace: Isle Man
Birth Year (Estimated): 1853
Page: 2
Household Role Gender Age Birthplace
Richard E Costin Head M 48 Isle Man
Percy E Costin Son M 11 Ontario
Jane A Costin Wife F 40 Ontario
Clarence Z Costin Son M 17 Ontario
The index version states “immigration 1854”
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IGI:
possible burial of Ann Costain nee Duke:
Name: Anne Costean
Event Type: Burial
Event Date: 01 Aug 1853
Event Place: Arbory, Isle of Man
Gender: Female
Age: 30
Birth Year (Estimated): 1823
abode Douglas
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IGI:
death of Thomas Costain:
Name: Thomas Darcy Costin
Event Type: Death
Event Date: 15 Jan 1910
Event Place: Woodstock, Oxford, Ontario
Gender: Male
Age: 64
Birth Year (Estimated): 1846
Father's Name: John Costin
Mother's Name: Ann Duke
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Hope this helps.
Jean C