Hi Georgia,
If you can email this I would love to see it. Please send to greg at kaighin dot com.
I really think that this is your Eleanor. If I remember correctly, the name "Mr. Kelly" came down from one of the aunts of Florence Lyon who relayed that to her verbally (Florance has since died). Certainly not reliable.
If you can find the death certificate post 1860, you'll likely find the names of Eleanor's parents. If they are John Kaighin and Eleanor Cannell, we have a match.
I also have many files I can send you of this Eleanor's family, which covers those who emigrated and the brother John who stayed behind.
Kind Regards,
Greg