The iomfhs.im research section has the marriage Jan 23 1911.

Robert was the son of Frederick Oates and Elizabeth Cowell B Jan 25 1881 in Douglas.

1881 census at 6 Drury Lane Douglas:-

Frederick Oates 29 Carpenter and Joiner Douglas
Elizabeth 26 Wife Douglas
Frederick William son 3 England (Liverpool)
Elizabeth Daugh. 2 Douglas
Robert Jas. son 2M. Douglas

Frederick and Elizabeth were married at St Saviours Liverpool 1875.

Emily May Cunningham was born Feb 1 1882 in Douglas to Henry Cunningham and Eleanor Cain. They were married in Braddan Oct 14 1877 but by 1891:-

At 5 Stanley Terrace Douglas, with Eleanor's family:-

Ellen Widow 30 Peel
May 9 Douglas
James 7 Douglas

Len Faragher