we get periods of intense spam activity for which only way is to ban certain common words or phrases used by them - you may have found one of these - try the preview facility to check then remove words etc till it stops complaining. You are not banned - just that message is blocked

Braddan was extremely busy - Douglas was growing quickly and my guess is that the vicar and/or clerk did not concern themselves with fine details such as previous marital status (too few 2nd marriages in period I've looked at)