This seems to be the family you're looking for.
Thomas Boyde & Charlotte Boyde md 3 Feb 1855 Ballaugh
They had 6 children incl John Thomas ch 4 Mar 1857 and Charles Henry ch 20 May 1863

Charlotte was buried 3 May 1877 Ballaugh

1881 Ballaugh Census
BOYDE, Thomas, Bishops Court, Head, Widower, 63, Farm Labourer, Ballaugh
, 2, 6, 30, BOYDE, William, Bishops Court, Son, , 22, Joiner, Ballaugh
, 2, 6, 30, BOYDE, Mary A., Bishops Court, Daughter, , 11, Scholar, Ballaugh
, 2, 6, 30, QUAYLE, William, Bishops Court, Son in Law, Married, 29, Farm Labourer, Lezayre
, 2, 6, 30, QUAYLE, Margaret, Bishops Court, Daughter, Married, 25, , Ballaugh
, 2, 6, 30, QUAYLE, Margaret, Bishops Court, Granddau, , 11/12, , Ballaugh
, 2, 6, 30, BOYDE, Edward, Bishops Court, Son, , 14, Farm Labourer, Ballaugh
, 2, 6, , , , , , , (Also has 2 sons
, 2, 6, , , , , , , at Kinsale)

Ballaugh Old Yard
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In memory of CHARLOTTE the beloved wife ot THOMAS BOYDE who died May 1st 1877 aged 47 years
Shes rejoicing in heaven we hope with Gods angels for ever to dwell
She was loved and respected by all God called and she bid us farewell
Also THOMAS BOYDE beloved husband of the above who died May 8th 1899 aged 82 years