Joan, if you were the Joan asking the same question in 2006/2007 you received many answers and MIs then.

See this thread:
www.isle-of-man.com/cgi-bin/interests/genealogy/bulletin/index.pl?noframes;read=511888

And this:
www.isle-of-man.com/cgi-bin/interests/genealogy/bulletin/index.pl?noframes;read=512269

And the whole thread:
www.isle-of-man.com/cgi-bin/interests/genealogy/bulletin/index.pl?noframes;read=512233

Sue