Yes its me again,
I asked at bmd to see if they had my john henry cain born douglas between 1863 to 1867 with father robert a carter,and robert was deceased by 1917,
the answer i got back was this,
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I haven’t found a baptism entry in the name of John Henry Cain, father’s name Robert, between the years you stipulated, I did find an entry for 30 March 1855 in Braddan, parents Robert Cain and Margaret Crowe, resident in Strang and father’s occupation a labourer.
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now i have to try and work out if its my cains, if this being the case then how uncanny because john henry cain s own son robert henry cain born 1894 [my grand father ] married elizabeth race [ my grand mother ] in manchester 1919, then after the death of elizabeth in 1952, robert henry married a margaret crow [ peggy ], dont know what year but i know they are all in same grave, any help please, and hope ive explained this correct