Do these look like yours? The elder Thomas seems to have died between 1841 and 1851. Widow Ann's age is older than expected in 1851.

(1841) HO 107/1463/7 es21 p.7
Lhargey Dhoo, German
Thomas Wade, 35, Ag. Lab., born IOM
Ann, 35, IOM
Thomas, 10, IOM
John, 8, IOM
James, 5, IOM
Ann, 1, IOM

There is a 10 year old Robert Wade a servant in the family of Patrick Kaighin, weaver, at Knocksharry, German

(1851) HO 107/2523 f.203 p.23 sch.83
Poortown, German
Ann Wade, head, widow, 57, Farm labourer, German
Robert, son, unmarried, 21, farm labourer, German
Ann, dau, 11, German
Edward, son, 9, German

With Patrick Cannell, landed prop. & farmer, Kione Droghad? Michael:
Thomas Wade, servt, unmar, 19, farm servant, born German in

With Gell family, Ballaquayle, German:
James Wade, servt, 14, farm labourer, born Ramsey.

For interest:
John Wade, 50, butcher, with wife and several children in Ramsey.
Hugh Wade, 35, wife and children, at Larg Glass, German