Bonnie,
if you want a little help - e-mail me with what you have, i can go to museum for you , i have the map with grave numbers on . Braddan old and new, maughold, patrick, lonan old and new, peel, st runis, Andrea.s etc; you do need the grave numbers, there are people on here as well that can look ups, all the books cost a fair bit and i go for people to take photographs of grave stones, i charge nothing, there are only two yards that you can find someone to help as not all doors are open now, and no one there, but still need stone numbers