Arlene,(We've corresponded before) - I've checked through the Rushen Burial Register (1712 - 1968) and the only real possibility of your Catherine Kermode born 1860 is:

KERMODE Catherine died age 73 of Cholera, Wife of Thomas buried 16 Oct 1832. Unfortunately the place of residence is not recorded. It may give you a lead to follow.
Unfortunately I cannot readily identify an obvious burial record for Thomas.
Glen (Western Australia