Thanks for all your qiuck responses unfortunatly non where what Iam looking for.Since your response I have found I am looking for JohnTear who was born in Isle of Man and was married to Mary j Tear maiden name unknown they had one child in the isle of Man William James Tear born 1865.I then find Mary William and another brother Thomas(born1870 in Scotland) on the 1881 cencus living in Cumbria but Mary is now married to a William Tweddle.Any information on any of the above would be extremely welcome.