dont know if this the one but i found a sarah mylrea born 1838in 1841 census there was a may age 15 cant read boys name could be darrick age 10 sarah age 3 thoms age 2 marg age 45 they lived in an inn called looks like raulsay inn the parish is onchan (douglas) then in 1851 it appears sarahs mum passed away but inbwen she married the owner of the inn william buchanan as sarah is named as williams stepdaughter he was a widower by 1851 still in the inn i think in sand street ( which could be strand st as it is known now, please let me know if this is correct sarah