Christine: Here she is on the 1881 UK census (you can access this yourself at http://www.familysearch.org).

John KAYE Head M Male 44 Patrick, Isle of Man, England Farmer of 65 Ac. Emp. 1 Labr
Charlotte KAYE Wife M Female 42 Patrick, Isle of Man, England Farmer's Wife
Annie KAYE Daur Female 6 Patrick, Isle of Man, England Scholar
Margaret KAYE Daur Female 2 Patrick, Isle of Man, England
Jane KAYE Sist in Law U Female 46 Marown, Isle of Man, England General Servant (Domestic)
Kate WATTERSON Servant U Female 15 Patrick, Isle of Man, England General Servant (Domestic)
Norris WHITTENS Servant U Male 19 Castletown, Isle of Man, England Farm Servant (in door)
Caesar CORRIS Servant U Male 55 Patrick, Isle of Man, England Farm Servant (in door
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Source Information:
Dwelling Ballakerkey
Census Place Patrick, Isle of Man, Isle of Man
Family History Library Film 1342344
Public Records Office Reference RG11
Piece / Folio 5596 / 29
Page Number 12