Len, Barbara's census entry looks like your best bet, although your marr cert "father Philip" is odd.
Did the marr. give occupations or other info?

Brian Lawson's marriage index has:
TEARE, John James 23 Feb 1884 R A1 21 KELLY, Rebecca Ann [Ramsey District, Non-conforming], who fit Barbara's census entry.

John James Teare was bapt.27 Feb.1859 Jurby.

In 1881 census John James Teare was in Andreas (born Jurby):
John TEARE Head W Male 48 Andreas, Isle of Man, England Farmer (of 256 Acres Employing 3 Lab)
Jane CORKILL Serv U Female 47 German, Isle of Man, England Serv (Dom)
John J. TEARE Serv U Male 22 Jurby, Isle of Man, England Farm Serv (Indoor)
Thos. MC LODE Serv U Male 22 Jurby, Isle of Man, England Farm Serv (Indoor)
Patrick CUNNINGHAM Serv U Male 33 Jurby, Isle of Man, England Farm Serv (Indoor)
Source Information:
Dwelling Ballakannag Census Place Andreas, Family History Library Film 1342345 Public Records Office Reference RG11 Piece / Folio 5599 / 11 Page Number 5

A 1901 census entry could help locate your John William Teare bc 1882.

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