I would be grateful if some kind person could please give some help, with my John Fargher - the trail of which has gone completely cold.

John I am reliably informed was born on IOM unfortunately no location or dob (so making this a near impossible task having read other peoples requests) However, I have the following information. He married a Helena Mary Glover in 1867 and had moved to Southampton where they had my great grandfather (born 1.3.1868)Benjamin William who married Kate Jefferies and they in turn had 14 children. John was an upholsterer/journeyman by trade. Any help or information, however small would be gratefully appreciated.