Hi Andrew,
Following on from the info given by Elizabeth, your family apperas in the 1881 census living in the parish of Lonan, details below:-
Dwelling: Ballacowell Cottage
Census Place: Lonan, Isle of Man, England
Source: FHL Film 1342346 PRO Ref RG11 Piece 5601 Folio 47 Page 10
Marr Age Sex Birthplace
Thomas FARGHER W 40 M Lonan, Isle of Man, England
Rel: Head
Occ: Lead Miner
Ann J. FARGHER 12 F Lonan, Isle of Man, England
Rel: Daur
Occ: Scholar
John Thos. FARGHER 6 M Lonan, Isle of Man, England
Rel: Son
Occ: Scholar
Julia FARGHER 3 F Lonan, Isle of Man, England
Rel: Daur
Eleanor FARGHER 26 F Lonan, Isle of Man, England
Rel: Sister
Occ: House Keeper
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Thomas's wife Ann Caine must have died somewhere between 1877 and 1881. Thomas`s sister Eleanor is looking after the family and from the IGI it looks as though Thomas`s and Eleanor`s parents may have been a James Fargher and Margaret Kelly. However this needs to be treated with caution as the IGI and cenus info can be inaccurate see below:-
Eleanor Fargher ch:-03 Sep 1854 Lonan parents:- James Fargher and Margaret Kelly
Thomas Fargher ch:-17 Sep 1837 Lonan parents:-James Fargher and Margaret Kelly.
If the IGI is correct his age should have been 43 yrs in 1881.
You need to check the earlier censuses.
Best wishes,
Colin Farrell.