ok folks
i had better try again, from a photo i have of my mother standing beside arthur bertie astons gravestone we have found out that it could be the cemetary behind or in front of the start point of the tt races on glencrutchery road, as i live in norfolk and dont have a lot of money, i wonder if anyone lives near there could check. big, big, favour. the headstone reads like this:- ARTHUR BERTIE. BELOVED HUSBAND OF ANN ASTON. WHO DIED 18? OCTOBER 19--? (CANT READ IT CLEARLY). AGED 67.