Hi Andy

In 1881, Eliza Jane Wilburn has a sister Frances Eleanor Gelling age 21 staying with her.

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Eliza Jane's sister's baptism from IGI:

name: Frances Eleanor Gelling
gender: Female
baptism/christening date: 07 Mar 1858
baptism/christening place: SAINT BARNABAS,DOUGLAS,ISLE OF MAN,ENGLAND
birth date:
birthplace:
death date:
name note:
race:
father's name: William Gelling
father's birthplace:
father's age:
mother's name: Eliza
mother's birthplace:
mother's age:
indexing project (batch) number: C03803-1
system origin: Isle_Of_Man-ODM
source film number: 106187
reference number:

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Eliza Jane is age 10 in 1861, with parents William (43, mason b Douglas) and Eliza (44 b Douglas) plus Elizabeth 16, Isabella 6 and Frances 3, so this looks like Eliza Jane's baptism from the IGI:

name: Eliza Jane Gelling
gender: Female
baptism/christening date: 20 Apr 1851
baptism/christening place: SAINT BARNABAS,DOUGLAS,ISLE OF MAN,ENGLAND
birth date:
birthplace:
death date:
name note:
race:
father's name: William Gelling
father's birthplace:
father's age:
mother's name: Eliza
mother's birthplace:
mother's age:
indexing project (batch) number: C03803-1
system origin: Isle_Of_Man-ODM
source film number: 106187
reference number:

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This looks as though it could be William's marriage from IGI:

groom's name: William Gelling
groom's birth date:
groom's birthplace:
groom's age:
bride's name: Eliza Corkhill
bride's birth date:
bride's birthplace:
bride's age:
marriage date: 19 Feb 1844
marriage place: Liverpool, Lancashire, England
groom's father's name: Thomas Gelling
groom's mother's name:
bride's father's name: John Corkhill
bride's mother's name:
groom's race:
groom's marital status: Single
groom's previous wife's name:
bride's race:
bride's marital status: Single
bride's previous husband's name:
indexing project (batch) number: M00746-5
system origin: England-EASy
source film number: 1656508
reference number: it 2, p 108, no 215

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Ancestry has this:

Liverpool, England, Marriages and Banns, 1813-1921
about William Gelling
Name: William Gelling
Age: Full Age
Marriage Date: 19 Feb 1844
Parish: Liverpool St Peter
Spouse's Name: Eliza Corkhill
Father's Name: Thomas Gelling
Spouse Father's Name: John Corkhill

image shows:

WG/full age/bachelor/stone mason/parish of Walton on the Hill/father Thomas Gelling, shoemaker.
EC/full/spinster/Gilbert St, Liverpool/father John Corkhill/tailor.
Witnesses: Joseph White and Elizabeth Yeoman.

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Jean C