Hi, I received help on the message board with my grandmother's 2 brothers, Herbert Kinvig who died in WW1 and his brother John who was stationed in Farnham 1911 census & then remained in England. John then had 2 sons one of which was killed in WW2 but the other son md & had 4 chn. Was just checking through Facebook & found one of these now adult 'children'. Saw so many names on the 'friends' list that were from this family (people with the maiden name of mother etc) that I knew straight away I'd found my right cousin, 3rd removed. Sent her a message via Facebook & she has replied. Hopefully we will now keep in touch even if only through facebook. Thanks for all help.