Thanks so much Donna - that was the info I wanted & it gave Eleanor's maiden name Cubbon so I know definitely it was her. When we were on IOM in Sept I was disappointed & sad to find out that my gr granddad who died aged 44 had no headstone. Next week we are getting a puppy & I'm naming him Archibald (Archie) in memory of James Philip Archibald Kelly. Sentimental maybe, but this way J.P.A. will be in the family's thoughts . Thanks again, K