Hello Barbara. Since you and I are both Gellings, I'm curious where the Gelling comes from in your name?
I'm developing a comprehensive Gelling history, as a sort of hobby. Keeps me off the streets, I guess. I can send you a Ballamillaghyn family tree if you like, which covers all the siblings of your Margaret Faragher als Gelling, and many others. JC also has it, as I recently sent it to her.
My email: egelling at shaw dot ca.
I'm away a lot during the summer but happen to be home at the moment.
Eric